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It's time to stop being stupid

One of my biggest faults (or virtue) is selflessness. I am not saying that I am a saint but when I have to choose between 'for the good of loved ones' and 'for the good of myself', I always pick the former and this has created immense, intense, tremendously over-stretched pain for myself. I've been told time and time again that if I don't think and act on behalf of myself, no one else in this world would....and yet, I continue to be caught in this loop whereby I place myself last on the list of priorities and continue to do things for the benefit of others. My principle is simple...if you can, then do it lor. I try not to be too calculative in life because I heard that it shortens your life. But not being calculative is not equivalent to me having to stoop to a level whereby it becomes easy to label me a stupid bimbo, right? So, I would like you to picture me as Arnold Schwarzenegger saying this....NO MORE MISTER NICE GUY.

Comments

Jamie said…
hey, nice titties u have there cuz
Marsha Maung said…
jamie, I know! Nice, huh? Size DDDDD cup, you know. :-)
Anonymous said…
Wah...nice tits!! I'd kill for those!I;m in lvoe with you, marsha!

killer
Marsha Maung said…
killer, I know. I am in love with myself too most of the time. I work hard for that body....
Krista Goon said…
That's what women are really. Selfless creatures. We're conditioned like that. But you must take some ME time. Go for something you truly enjoy. I love my foot reflexology sessions, once a fortnight. Also, a Japanese lunch. Take care of yourself first. You know those airplane advice if the oxygen mask falls from the top? Put it on yourself FIRST before you put it on your kids. If you don't take care of yourself, who takes care of the kids?
Marsha Maung said…
maya, you're right about that! I stopped being so focused on others for some time now. But I've begun this vicious cycle again....so, this serves as a reminder that it's OK to be selfish sometimes.
Anonymous said…
Marhsa, tis better to sellfish than sellprawn.

Killer
Marsha Maung said…
killer, i try to balance between selling fish and selling prawn lah, in this case. :-)
ha ha ha..this picture is soo funny. so how is the bad guy thing going? :)

a passerby

A
Marsha Maung said…
Just call me 'A', the bad guy thing is going well but taking some getting used to. Been a carpet for a long time, so, this is kinda like a really big change for me. :-)

thanks for dropping by!

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