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Update : It's the Ho-Ho-Holidays...BLOODY AGAIN

The Raya Holidays is here again...well, the holidays is here AGAIN and here we are...on a break AGAIN.

For parents of small kids, almost the entire month of June has been hell because they must have been scrambling around trying to keep the kids occupied/separate/play nicely/not fight almost the entire month. It's been either one holiday or another and while the teachers are in a month-long party mode, parents who are paying for school or kindhy are mostly left fuming about having to pay an entire month of fees for absolutely no teaching and babysitting.

It's no shame to admit that we, parents, sometimes think of ANY kind of activity as a form of babysitting. A few minutes or a few hours without having to be on high alert about every creak, crack or scream in the house is always much welcome.

So, I had a break the other day and I went on Facebook to check on some of my friends and relative. And this was what happened.

Two hours wasted on admiring other people's lives, read…
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