It's time to stop being stupid

One of my biggest faults (or virtue) is selflessness. I am not saying that I am a saint but when I have to choose between 'for the good of loved ones' and 'for the good of myself', I always pick the former and this has created immense, intense, tremendously over-stretched pain for myself. I've been told time and time again that if I don't think and act on behalf of myself, no one else in this world would....and yet, I continue to be caught in this loop whereby I place myself last on the list of priorities and continue to do things for the benefit of others. My principle is simple...if you can, then do it lor. I try not to be too calculative in life because I heard that it shortens your life. But not being calculative is not equivalent to me having to stoop to a level whereby it becomes easy to label me a stupid bimbo, right? So, I would like you to picture me as Arnold Schwarzenegger saying this....NO MORE MISTER NICE GUY.