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My Definition of Sexy

So, we sat around and got discussing about sexy, or rather, 'appealing' men and most of us agreed that one does not have to be physically muscled up in order to be sexy. Being tall is good, having a sense of humor is fab, having ethics is pretty darn important and of course, if you have a nice pair or peepers, that would be dreamy.

If your body is like this....EVEN BETTERRRRRRRR! LOL

But honestly speaking, men like this (don't argue with me) are unattainable. Out of our league even before we can say 'poof'.

And we are quite realistic about things. We don't marry KPop stars or TVB actors. We just go to their concerts or watch their movies and waste a lot of money on things we don't need. lol

Harlow....reality checkkkkkkk....

So, when I mentioned that I thought this one guy was really sexy to me, you should have seen my friends' faces. Hahahahaha! Who is that man?

Yoo Jae Suk - gagman

Don't laugh la....I am being serious!

If you watch Running Man, a South Korean variety show, you will know what I am talking about. You might even have an inking why I say he is sexy. His name is Yoo Jae Suk, the yellow-suit-doning-man in both PSY's Gangnam Style and Mother Father music videos.

He may be a gagman but there is a reason why the Producers of Running Man gave him the roles of

Yooruce Willis (as in Bruce Willis)

Yoomes Bond (Do I have to explain why?)

There is something sexy about a man who is kind, caring, who knows when to say what, resolute, a good leader...and someone who, when required, will refuse to say die.

There is something sexy about how he will run like the wind, refuse to give in to brute force, has his head screwed on straight even when he is outnumbered and being chased down and then....

...rips off the enemy's nametag to become the final man standing....

...and then leave his opponent with the final remark, 'Consider yourself dumped by me'. lol

All in all, it's his humbleness and fighting spirit. Not brute force, all muscled up or a gangster. But a sexy man is polite, knows when to back off or run or fight back. A man who knows how to be a man.

THAT. Is bloody sexy. A scrawny, ugly (he admits this himself) man CAN be sexy when armed with the right attitude. Even actresses have said that they are Yoo Jae Suk fans because there is just something.....SOMETHING about him that they can't put their finger on.

If he wasn't married already and he liked me, I would marry him in a heartbeat. I am not even kidding and yes, he is less than average looking but he overrides it with everything else he's got.

His wife is a lucky woman.



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