Told myself i have to blog about something today so, here i am. I am on my phone so if u r a grammar-correcting activist, dont continue reading. Lol. I am not sure if i have the patience to manually capitalize each and every 'I' and i am not really sure how to spell apostrophe w/o autocorrect.
I hope the spelling is correct, oh hell. Lol.
Anyway, just wanna share an article i saw on Time about the advantages and disadvantages of optimists and pessimists.
I was born a natural optimist. How else would one explain a legal officer jumping ship from a desk job of suing people to a rock band member, right?
after becoming a mom, the reigns of control in my brain turned me into a pessimist. A parent is supposed to be an all-knowing being, choonow so, in an effort to know everything, i had to be able to read the future. Like predicting the next time my kid is gonna want to poop, fall or is he going to be a doctor.
This type of thinking naturally turns people into control freaks, me thinks.
I thought it was a terrible type of person to become. Like being turned into a natural b***h because of something u r required to do.
I am glad that after reading the article, it has given me more peace of mind and a lot more self understanding and acceptance.
Have a good read, its Friday and Monday is a hohohoholiday!!!