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The Things We Are Sorry About...in Abundance

The Asian mentality is as such. So is the 'entertainer' culture.

We say sorry way too much. We say sorry, sometimes, not because it was our fault. In fact, we say sorry when we should be saying 'Excuse me, I didn't quite catch what you said. Can you please repeat that?'

Granted, sorry is an incredibly important word to use but there are things that we should not be sorry for:-

  1. Who we are
  2. Our sexual orientation
  3. Our feelings
  4. Our situation
  5. Our problems
  6. Our emotions
  7. Our tears
  8. Our regrets (we shouldn't have too many of this evil thing, anyway)
  9. Our dreams
  10. ....I can go on so, feel free to add your thoughts if you want to
Sometimes I am sick of feeling sorry for making others feel the way they do, which I can't help them with because it is their feeling after all. It's like a huge cycle.

So, at the end of the day, we should just acknowledge our feelings and say 'sorry, I am making you feel that way. I am sorry but not all that sorry because if I feel sorry about it then I am sorry for making myself feel sorry for making you feel that way'.

This is getting nowhere, right?

Life, 


LOL,
Marsha
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