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'Nice' Sucks

Nice is such a horrible, horrible word. Nothing happens to nice. Like....they remain where they are a decade down the road. They don't change or do anything at all. Nice is a little prehistoric. I don't want to be nice. Nice people are taken advantage of. Nice people suck it up when they should just step out of their shell. Nice people cry silently in the background and nobody cares. Nice people hurt when other people hurt. Nice people suck. Comparatively, mean people are fantastic because they know what they want. They see something that they want, they won't think twice about shoving nice people out of the way. Nice people step aside and let them go ahead, anyway. No shoving is necessary but mean people shove you....just for fun, and nice people don't say anything. Fun people are also exciting to be because they're the life of a party. Fun people like nice people because nice people laugh even when fun people make lousy jokes. Fun people are enemies of mean people. And nice people always try to calm both down because fun people can swing the other direction as well....they end up having fun taking revenge. Nice people are boring too. Nice people are stagnant. Nice people don't have lives. Nice people look the other way when someone slips up. Nice people give the poor food. Nice people clothes innocent children when their own kids need CNY clothes. Nice people end up listening to a friend crying on the phone at 3.57am in the morning. Nice people can't get anywhere. Nice people end up losers. Nice people don't have nice lives. Mean people, on the other hand, have everything. Sorry, not having such a nice day today because my keyboard sucks!


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