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Miraculous Effects Of Hugging

I don’t know if it’s a Marsha thing or it’s a female thing. I don’t know if it’s a Leo thing or am I just plain weird. A hug can say and solve a lot of things. Seriously, I am big on hugs and I have been like that with both my SONS. Sometimes I look at them and see them hugging each other after a fight…or at night when they’re sleeping, they’re sorta hugging each other and think to myself….gosh, did I overdo this hug thing? They’re boys. I’ve always been rather expressive in a lot of ways. If I am tulan, you see it on my face and I am not the kind of person who can pretend. When I pretend, you’ll KNOW that I am pretending. Hugging, to me, can also solve a whole damn lot of things. If arguing, you can silence me and pull me to your side with a hug. If I emo, a hug can go on for hours. And at night, instead of having s*x, hugging each other to sleep can be even better. Hugs are especially meaningful between friends too especially when one’s heart is broken or when one is having lots of trouble with stress at work. For mothers, when you’re up to your neck with work and responsibilities, a hug from your kids will help melt the tightness in those muscles of yours while filling your heart with love and hope. Never undermine a hug, my friends because with a simple hug, big messages can be sent and issues can be resolved. But remember to hug for at least 8 seconds because that’s how long it usually takes for someone to ‘feel’ the true message behind the hug. And rest your head on each others’ shoulders when you’re hugging….that’s what friends/lovers/kids/parents are for. For reading this, you deserve a hug. Here….a hug is coming your way! :-)

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Anonymous said…
I love my Killer GIrls. That's why it's a 'ritual' for me to hug them when I greet them. You did noticed, yes?

Killer Guy

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