Can't begin to tell you how happy I am to see something so explicitly 'woman' written in our local daily, The Star. From as far back as I can remember, women are known as men's playthings and that the sexual act is merely an 'exercise' for women. For men, orgasm is a necessary thing but for women, whether they receive mutual sexual pleasure or not, did not matter.
Women's need to derive pleasure from the act of making love has been supressed or swept under the carpet by our conservative society. Acknowledging that 'YES, I WANT TO HAVE AN ORGASM' or 'Yes, I LIKE HAVING SEX' is like saying 'Yes, I am a slut who is free for all'. In the Western culture, women enjoy sex as much as men because they acknowledge the fact that there is a need to. And women are more forthright about their right to enjoy the act themselves. Not that I condone free sex or unsafe sex but I just think that in acknowledging that we are women and human, we need to enjoy the pleasure of making love as well as men.
Hence, the article I am woman by DR NOR ASHIKIN MOKHTAR in The Star came in a timely manner. In the article, the writer educates women (and ignorant men)about the clitoris, which is the female equivalent to the male's penis. Don't be shy-shy to read it and admit it lah....come on! Normal part of the body only what! But the thing is that our society don't often recognize or 'make full use of this part of the body' because 'ahem' it's dirty-lah to think of such things?
Bull Shit.
I have been doing this pose, part of Cosmic Dance (a type of yoga, I am assuming), called Stargazer pose without knowing it is called Stargazer's pose a lot in the past. You see, sometimes, I don't follow the rules and come up with my own stretches and poses. It is fun. I have on some music, nice, soothing music or just anything I can click on. Then I go with the flow, letting my hair down. Just moving to the music...and that is when I come up with the above Stargazer's pose. This pose really stretches your sides. Keep your eyes on the outstretched hand if you are keeping it pointed to the top, as if you are waving or connecting to a higher energy from the Universe. Your arms will ache a little but hey, toned arms, here you come! :-) For those who want a bigger stretch, it is safe to slowly and gently move the lifted hand towards your back...don't overdo it, listen to your body's complaints and respect it. You don't have to prove anything to anyone, reme...
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For your info bro, I just paid and talked and talked and talked...how can lah like this?
She kept breathing hard...gasping for breath in fact. Gave her orgasms just with my fingers alone before I gave her the 'real deal' with my penis...and those were the times she screamed when she climaxed and her hands started to grab my butt. Sometimes she grabbed so hard it was painful...but I tahan lor...she enjoying the moment. hahaha...true story.Nothing to be ashamed of ma.
I am always a giver to this day and I believe it is more important to satisfy your partner than yours when it comes to sex.
MArsha, you are right. Girls nowadays are mroe terror than before. They know they can have 'it' anyday they feel like it.
That's why it's more fun to be a chick.
Killer