Can't begin to tell you how happy I am to see something so explicitly 'woman' written in our local daily, The Star. From as far back as I can remember, women are known as men's playthings and that the sexual act is merely an 'exercise' for women. For men, orgasm is a necessary thing but for women, whether they receive mutual sexual pleasure or not, did not matter.
Women's need to derive pleasure from the act of making love has been supressed or swept under the carpet by our conservative society. Acknowledging that 'YES, I WANT TO HAVE AN ORGASM' or 'Yes, I LIKE HAVING SEX' is like saying 'Yes, I am a slut who is free for all'. In the Western culture, women enjoy sex as much as men because they acknowledge the fact that there is a need to. And women are more forthright about their right to enjoy the act themselves. Not that I condone free sex or unsafe sex but I just think that in acknowledging that we are women and human, we need to enjoy the pleasure of making love as well as men.
Hence, the article I am woman by DR NOR ASHIKIN MOKHTAR in The Star came in a timely manner. In the article, the writer educates women (and ignorant men)about the clitoris, which is the female equivalent to the male's penis. Don't be shy-shy to read it and admit it lah....come on! Normal part of the body only what! But the thing is that our society don't often recognize or 'make full use of this part of the body' because 'ahem' it's dirty-lah to think of such things?
Bull Shit.
I was kind of a little sad when I read the news about this - there will be no live-in Indonesian maids in Malaysia anymore . There are pros and cons to having a live-in maid, as with everything else, but for us, we enjoyed more pros than cons. Back then, when my kids were little, we brought in a family of maids to help with...well, just about everything, and we were like two families merged into one. They ate what we ate, we sleep, they sleep, we shop, they shop, they joke, we laugh, we joke, they laugh...for me, the maid I hired was more like a sister and side-kick to me. For that few years, I was dependent on her to mind-read my schedule and when I need or don't need help. She picked things up quickly and we ended up having lots of moments whereby we were in sync. Today, two of them are on my Facebook and we were gleefully chatting over Facebook Messenger since they've just discovered the wonders of the Internet and Social Media. Since we were more like partners in crim...
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For your info bro, I just paid and talked and talked and talked...how can lah like this?
She kept breathing hard...gasping for breath in fact. Gave her orgasms just with my fingers alone before I gave her the 'real deal' with my penis...and those were the times she screamed when she climaxed and her hands started to grab my butt. Sometimes she grabbed so hard it was painful...but I tahan lor...she enjoying the moment. hahaha...true story.Nothing to be ashamed of ma.
I am always a giver to this day and I believe it is more important to satisfy your partner than yours when it comes to sex.
MArsha, you are right. Girls nowadays are mroe terror than before. They know they can have 'it' anyday they feel like it.
That's why it's more fun to be a chick.
Killer