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Yes, I am a woman too

Can't begin to tell you how happy I am to see something so explicitly 'woman' written in our local daily, The Star. From as far back as I can remember, women are known as men's playthings and that the sexual act is merely an 'exercise' for women. For men, orgasm is a necessary thing but for women, whether they receive mutual sexual pleasure or not, did not matter. Women's need to derive pleasure from the act of making love has been supressed or swept under the carpet by our conservative society. Acknowledging that 'YES, I WANT TO HAVE AN ORGASM' or 'Yes, I LIKE HAVING SEX' is like saying 'Yes, I am a slut who is free for all'. In the Western culture, women enjoy sex as much as men because they acknowledge the fact that there is a need to. And women are more forthright about their right to enjoy the act themselves. Not that I condone free sex or unsafe sex but I just think that in acknowledging that we are women and human, we need to enjoy the pleasure of making love as well as men. Hence, the article I am woman by DR NOR ASHIKIN MOKHTAR in The Star came in a timely manner. In the article, the writer educates women (and ignorant men)about the clitoris, which is the female equivalent to the male's penis. Don't be shy-shy to read it and admit it lah....come on! Normal part of the body only what! But the thing is that our society don't often recognize or 'make full use of this part of the body' because 'ahem' it's dirty-lah to think of such things? Bull Shit.

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